Saturday, August 02, 2008
IVF vs. Insemination
INSEMINATION: (per Bellingham IVF - other clinics may do it differently)
Go about the monthly cycle as usual with a few vaginal ultrasounds to see how ones eggs are growing. On about day 12-14 you get an HCG shot to "make" you ovulate within the next 24+ hours. You then have an appointment the next day to be inseminated (the sperm is put into a tiny syringe type thing that and threaded into the cervix). You don't really feel anything other then the speculum (which a man HAD to have invented!) Then you wait 2 weeks to see if your period starts......and/or take a blood test. No testing early as HCG is what pregnancy tests detect.
(We have done insemination's and also added some medicine to create more eggs....but still the same protocol, other than.....more money)
IVF = Invitro Fertilization
This starts with birth control pills to take over ones cycle and then a month full of medicine to create more eggs, etc. This is pretty much the cycle where the doctor takes over your whole body to make it prime nesting grounds for a baby. They allow your body to make lots of eggs (mine can make 25+) and then they put you out and take a needle into your ovaries and draw out the eggs. They then "cook" them in a petri dish for 3-5 days and then put the now embryo's back in. Bed rest for a few days and then wait 10-11 days to do a pregnancy test.
This is the basic route of it all...... but hopefully that will allow you to understand a bit more.
As for our baby plans.......
We're planning on October and we're going to do IVF :) We are very excited, anxious and for me - I just wish it would get here! :) It is very exciting to tear another month off the calandar, knowing it is a month closer! :) This year at work we have to use up all of our vacation (no carry over) and so there are a lot of people with LOTS of vacation and we're getting down to the last 6 months of the year and so people are trying to get all their vacations in and so K and I have been trying to figure out when would be best to start the baby stuff. We scheduled October 17th - October 31st off! I should get a call this week from Bellingham IVF to make "tentative" plans............ YAHOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Long Time No Type!
We started Weight Watchers on Monday. We've tried it many times before and haven't stuck to it...... but this time we both joined, attended a meeting, and we have the mind set that we can stick to it! We've done great so far and our first weigh-in is Monday! :) (It truly helps to have someone to be accountable to!)
We had a pizza party for a lady in our office that was leaving at our house. We had people bring pizza toppings and then we bought Boboli's! It really turned out to be a great time! We'll miss this person in our office greatly..... but hopes she has less stress and enjoys this new job lots! :)
Last night I went for another massage.... my neck has been bothering me quite a bit and I had a headache all week....so we coughed up the money. UGH. I love it, but hate spending the money on extra things like this. I do feel a bit sore today, with tweaks here and there...... we'll see. It may be more underlying....and I may try to find a yoga class or something to help strengthen.
This morning we got up and ran some errands - Farmers Market for BLUEBERRIES ;o) and some fresh green beans since ours will not be on for probably another 2-4 weeks......then I'll have them coming out of every crevice in my body! LOL and then we returned some books to the library (only to come home and find that we had left one CD in the CD PLAYER!!) so now we have to make another trip to return it..... and then to Kohl's to find some comfy tennis shoes for Randi's Big Feet......(this has been an on going saga....) but we did find some that are comfy! and then to get some shampoo and conditioner at JC Penny and back home for a yummy turkey sandwich, cucumbers, and some sun chips :) K's laying down for a nap....... and I'm typing!
Tonight we watch Braxton for our every 6 weekish night watch! We're going to take some hot dogs, blueberries and watermelon and head for the beach! He really enjoys playing in the water, in the sand, and just hanging out. So we'll go do that and BBQ there. The sun isn't really shining here yet....... so hopefully soon!! K's sister and kids may join us - which would be fun!
Sunday, July 27, 2008
Weekend In A Flash
Cuddled lots with a 2 month old baby :)
Swam in Lake Roosevelt / Columbia River (with and without bees!)
Ate, ate, and ate some more
Enjoyed the innocence of kids/teens
I took my camera, didn't take any pictures with *my* camera, but with my parents. I'll see to it that they email some to me so I can post them here.
I woot'ed for the first time today.......an all in one printer for $55.00 (including shipping) (of which I saw on sale at Target for $70! :) It should be here in a few days.....
I'm off to hit the sack.....the alarm is set to go off early to work out.......... I need to get this body in a little bit better shape to carry babies in the next few months!
Randi
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Tonight's Activities
I haven't been able to eat enough blueberries latley......YUM! Today I was thinking of Veruca Salt off of Willie Wonka ...LOL (as I sit here in my purple night shirt!) LOL
I'm going to go read tonights paper then hit the sack..... we haven't been in bed before 10:30pm any night this week!
Friday Fill-In
1. I believe whatever doesn't kill you ... means your still kickin'?
2. If you're good at something, pursue it, dream it, and live it!
3. Why does life have to be so complicated? (I need a kid sense of life!)
4. Something is out there for us, and it's exactly what we need!
5. If my life were a sitcom, it would be titled Roo's Rainbow.
6. Sitting on my back porch I see the potatoes growing in the field, a lovely Japanese garden and veggies and fruits growing in MY garden!
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to taking a beautiful drive over the North Cascades with the sun shining, listening to some fun books on tape we got at the library as we travel to Grand Coulee and have a fun BBQ upon arrival with friends and family, tomorrow my plans include lots and lots of beach time with kids and family and lots of sun and water and Sunday, I want to enjoy the time with K on the way back!!
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
Wednesday!
Today K got a call from her dad at work and asked if we'd like to join him for dinner - kind of an odd thing for the Shelton side of the family to do......but sure! So, we enjoyed a very nice chat and visit with Dad Shelton, went and got some gas at the local casino for $4.13, and then came home!
We're headed to Coulee for the weekend to hang with the 'rents and a few others. Dad has a BBQ planned for our arrival.....
Work has been slower.......and the weird thing is - is it seems like it came to a screeching halt all of the sudden - not a gradual slow down....... I'm able to keep somewhat steady doing some map scanning, etc........but it will be interesting come fall/winter to see what happens........
Can you tell that this has been on my mind? There isn't a damn thing I can do about it - but it is still unsettling. I'm not worried about losing my job per se, I could find something else, and/or learn a new something....... just the thought of not knowing what is going to happen - and I'm a PLANNER. (I'm going to have to ease up on that with kids ..... I guess that is the un-hippy in me?)
I guess that's it for tonight...... :)
Monday, July 21, 2008
Work Note
Our work is not what it should be right now (does that surprise anyone, with the way the real estate is going?!) So, he pretty much forwarned us that the winter months and into Spring are going to be........unforseeable - but - that there could be possible changes that affect each and every one of us.
We were thankful he came to at least confront us all, even if it does seem doom and gloom.
We shall see where it goes from here........ if today was any factor of what it is going to be like....... I may go crazy. (The courier and I were both needing to scan with only 1 scanner!) It will make it interesting.
K says no matter what - we're trying in October. We are very lucky to have a place we can call home if need be - for free (property in Grand Coulee). That is a blessing amidst all the unsettled unknowing factors.
I'm exhausted.......K's mowing, I'm hitting the sack and it is only 8pm!! :)
Randi
Sunday, July 20, 2008
This & That
What beautiful weather we are having around here huh? Our corn is finally knee high, we're gathering bucket fulls of raspberries to freeze for on cereal and eating some fresh, and I have ate a few tomato's, our corn, artichoke, carrots, and onions are all doing well also! It is so fun growing your own garden!
Saturday K had an old friend over with her partner. We had a great time! We talked, ate, talked, and ate some more :) They have gone to Gay Bingo in the past and told us it is a really great time! I am bound to go this coming year!!
Today we took a drive up to Whatcom Falls and toodled around a little bit. It was fun! We also went to Bellis Fair to see if their Bon Clearance store was still open, but it wasn't........ I need a pair of dress brown pants......... (not like khaki's) but like polyester.........12 TALL :o) Have I ever told you how hard it is to find me pants without paying an arm and a leg?................and ask those of my family members that have gone shopping with me - how much fun they've had ;)
K is now taking a little nap with the cat :) and we're headed to Grandma's house later this afternoon to visit her......
I think I'm going to make some whole wheat bread using my roll recipe and whole wheat flour and see how it works. It should be cheaper than buying bread nowadays.....
Baby stuff is coming on right along...... we're planning for October which is only a few months away to begin (in September). Today we both had the thought (which we really can't dwell on) but WHAT IF THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN!? ugh. We could spend $12,000 and get nothing - which we've already done......
BUT ya know what?
My body is right where it needs to be to make a wonderful, and perfect baby.
The stinky part that we have to figure out now is time off........and wether we'll get it off together now or not.....
Done for now.
Randi
Friday, July 18, 2008
My Personal Friday Fill In
Our plans for the weekend include a visit from an old friend of K's and her partner tomorrow (can't wait!) and then just enjoying each other doing whatever we feel like.
It was somewhat of a nice week at work, actually - despite a lady giving her 2 weeks notice and now not allowing K and I to have any time off together......... we all worked as a team and just did a great job together! Our office is really fun!
I cannot wait for tomorrow A.M. I'm making a mad dash for the Farmer's Market for BLUEBERRIES! They were so yummy!!!!
I'm off of here for the night............. hope you all have a great weekend!!
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Cannot Wait!
:)
Randi
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Happy Tuesday - and Weekend in Review
(Blueberries, kohlrabi, peas, some jalapeno cheddar sourdough bread and some yummy carmels by Forte Chocolates (karen@fortechocolates.com) YUM!!!!We checked on K's grandma later in the day and she was still so out of sorts. That poor lady. Her daughter leaving and her having been in the hospital really sent her for a loop. She wouldn't go to meals or anything. We ended up taking her some frozen dinners. Here is a picture of her and Kauleen:

Later that night I went to a gathering of sorts with a group out of Sedro Woolley. It is a group of people who have gone to different churches and tried to fit in, but never really felt part of the church, but still wanted a community to belong to. It was a lot of fun!! We sang songs, went over their goals from the beginning of the year and where they were at, and just had a grand time! I don't normally do things like this but have been yearning for some more socialization lately and they meet every Saturday........and the best part is.....
THEY ARE STARTING A DRUM CIRCLE! :)
So, I'll get in on that starting next month, cannot wait and also it may allow K to have some time to herself also, which she has been needing!!
Sunday when we got up....we had plans to go to the Bellingham Gay Pride Festival, but after the week of being gone every night, loving on Grandma and her needs a bit more, we were exhausted. We went to Target and bought new underwear (on sale-cheap!) and then came home and watched Juno.....yep, you read it - WE WATCHED TOGETHER, a movie.....and guess what? I DIDN'T FALL ASLEEP!!!! (although I was knitting.......and at times......my eyes were shutting.......BUT I stayed awake!) I loved it......very cute movie. After that, we did some yard work, etc.....and then decided to hit the festival in the afternoon. We drove 1/2 hour North.....got there.....and it was pretty lame. Obviously if we had hit it right after the parade it would've been a lot more people, but half the booths were tore down.....and it was 4:30 and was supposed to be going until 8pm. So we did about a 5 minute walk of the festival, listened to my friend from High School (Amber Darland) sing and play for a bit and then headed back home.......
Then, we decided to play re-arrange the furniture. Our Queen bed has a divot in it and so K is not all that comfy sleeping on her belly (which she does) and so we decided we'd move the full into our room (which was in the spare bedroom) and put the Queen bed in there.......that requires dis-assembling each bed frame, moving anything under the bed.....and then assembling all over again! Well....one night on the full bed and no sleep for either of us.........the next night, yep Monday night guess what we did? RE-ARRANGED FURNITURE AGAIN! This time........ we have the full still in the spare room.......BUT......this is what our room looks like:

No bed frame. We decided with the computer now in our room, and having had the Sleigh Bed out of our room for one night - we had a TON more room. So, we're probably going to bed a small size bed frame....but for now I like to think we'll keep it this way and add a few mattresses soon :) perfect for a wall of beds ;) (Oh and we put the sleigh bed on Craigslist and it went in less than 24 hours for the price we had said we'd sell it for!)
Work is going pretty good this week so far........ :) One person is out on vacation, but I think that tends to make the office a little different :) Our boss BBQ'd for us today, in celebration of our Burlington office joining our team. (With the way the market is, we had to shut down a small office and lay someone off....but the closer got to join our group) She's a fun, spunky lady.......and we need some life!!
Last night K and I went out to a local park, took some chicken and such, a blanket, and sat by the water and tried to come up with some short term and long term goals. We're pretty much on the same page........just achieving them all and how to go about doing that.
Having a baby is #1. I had someone, who knew someone, who may want my eggs (and I had originally thought that we could split/share the cost of the cycle - being about $5,000 each) but turns out that won't work........due to legal complications with the IVF Clinic.......so unless someone wants me eggs then we'll be paying full price - which we are prepared for. It is a good thing I called the other day to ask a few questions (we're preparing to take time off of work....) and they said they are full for September and are starting to fill up for October!!! They don't have the calendar yet......but will call me soon with the dates available! CRAZY-NESS to think that in a few months, I'll be trying again, or at least starting with the medicines...........oh what a pain in the ass ;o)
Secondly, we know that at least one of us wants to stay home and/or work part time - but that will not be doable in the house we are in. We have property that is paid for, but then we need to evaluate if we want to live in a small, non-gay friendly town and/or in more of an accepting town with possibility of meeting other likeminded life learning families.......:) so when we do get pregnant, then we get to figure out what now!? :) THAT is exciting..............
Thirdly, we want to finish Coulee......but that may take us some time. I think we've decided our next step in Coulee is to get stairs made, get the space covering our water pipes covered securely, and then dig for water and get the water pipes in. The first 2 aren't too bad cost wise (well....after the baby they will be) but the last one is going to be costly. As soon as we get it finished, it could possibly be an income for us - if that is what we so choose.
Our corn is about K's knee high right now :) Raspberries are growing like CRAZY! and are so yummy!! We pick usually morning and night on the raspberries......and have them on our cereal, eat them raw, and freeze lots too! With the price of raspberries in the store, I'm thinking we should plant more bushes for next year and sell them at a little stand!
I need to go finish fertilizing the rest of the veggies with fish fertilizer ;) as organic as it gets....... and get a few things done around the house.
I'll post our Fragrance Lake pictures upon my return back inside!
Sunday, July 13, 2008
I'm Pooped!
we just finished re-arranging beds :)
I'll share some pics of our hike last week, a awesome picture of K and her Grandma, and our farmer's market treats someday this week!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
CRAP!

Friday, July 11, 2008
Friday Fill-In
2. Canned cat food is the first thing I see when I open my refrigerator (and the first thing that came to mind!
3. I never leave home without my altoids box!!
4. If I were a condiment, I would be sweet relish because you get sweet and salty put together as one!.
5. Crunching while eating is really high up on my list of pet peeves. (Thanks DAD!)
6. The last thing I thought of before I went to bed was how much I love Kauleen.
7. And as for the weekend, tonight I’m looking forward to hanging out and doing something relaxing (we've been doing something EVERY night this week!), tomorrow my plans include possibly cleaning and/or staining the fence and Sunday, I want to go to the Bellingham Gay Pride Parade and Festival!
Thursday, July 10, 2008
Thursday Thirteen
1. Mt. Constitution (Mount Constitution at 2,409 feet is the highest point in the San Juan Islands) and has one amazing 360 degree view! (a tough hike, but well worth it!)
2. Goat's Peak (Winthrop, WA) 7001 feet. One of only a few left - a manned fire lookout! Goats Peak Information
4. Whatcom County - Fragrance Lake

5. Lake 22 - Granite Falls. This was a BEAUTIFUL hike, kind of tough, but had pretty waterfalls, wooden bridges, etc.
6. Lake Padden Trail - Bellingham, WA (a nice stroll that we do often)
7. Washington Park Trail - Anacortes, WA
8. Leadbetter Point - Long Beach, Washington
11. Iceberg Lake - Glacier National Park Montana
12. The hike to no where......we took a trail in Glacier National Park with no map trying to get to some special "falls" but only ended up getting no where. We'll never remember the name of the trail, but will always have the memory. :)
13. Share with us your favorite hike and/or walk!
Wednesday, July 09, 2008
We Did It!
We took sandwiches, and ate at the lake and then came down.
We got home about 9:30 tonight and we're exhausted. We took some pictures so I'll put them on in a few nights!
Tuesday, July 08, 2008
Tuesday Thoughts
K's Grandma is now out of the hospital and at home. We'll have to keep a close eye on her for a few days as her daughter leaves town.......K took her some fresh raspberries and a few other little treats tonight.
Work hasn't been all that nuts-o, thankfully! It has been steady, but not uncontrollable.
Tomorrow is Wednesday - half way point! :)
I've been feeling fat lately.......and am trying to eat better and watch my calories......whether or not I add the exercise in quite yet.......that's a different story. I HATE exercising. HATE IT. But also hate feeling the rolls of fat on my pants, gut, bra, etc....... whine, pout, whine........
That's it for tonight.............
Sunday, July 06, 2008
Damn Videos!
ARGH! I guess it is time for me to go to bed.








